It has been said that people come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. I like to think that this is true for there is no greater teacher than first hand experience.
Friends are like jewelry.
There are the cosmetic ones, not real...but at a glance one may not be able to tell without a skillfully discerning eye. Usually bought for a reason; to compliment an outfit to an upcoming event but it is universally known that the probability of its endurance past that is quite low.
(if you are allergic to Nickel like I am, ignoring all warnings and proceeding to wear it will only end in pain)
So one can lament the loss of the accessory but must too be grateful that in the moment it brought much joy. I have lost many great friends along that way and this often saddens me to think that someone who once meant so much is no longer a part of my life. But looking back, the memories of those times will always be treasured even though we are strangers now.
Next are the silver friends...not the most precious element but still of substantial value. Usually received as a present on a birthday or holiday and as such is worn for the duration of its sentimental value or until the season is over. Then it is forgotten in the jewelry bowl and becomes tarnished, never able to really regain its initial shine.
These I like to think of more as the 'symbiotic relationship of the human world' rather than a friendship. It is based upon the mutualism at that point in time and usually comes with an expiration date.
Finally...are the diamonds. The ones of most worth and when they enter it's for a lifetime.
These priceless pieces are treasured and loved. They carry the ability to lighten any mood and beautify any situation. These are the friendships that do not need words...
It takes having only a few in the collection to not have to worry about the reasons or the seasons of the others. Always taking comfort in the fact that they were formed under pressure and so can weather any storm :)
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